So Much


It seems like there has been a lot going on in my/our lives and with our little man lately.  I’ve tried to sit down multiple times and write, but with an almost-four-month-old (next Wednesday!) it is hard to find the time! I’m telling you, the boy doesn’t nap.  Like, ever.  So, I apologize for the bullets . . .but I’m sure you all will understand!

  • Updating on my hospital situation.  I found out (through a friend that works on the hall above) that the awful nurse (#1) was suspended without pay for 3 days for the way she treated me.  Good.  I wish she had gotten fired….but at least they took it somewhat seriously.  The sad thing is that she has worked there for 25 years.  What a joke.  I am persuing a claim with the hospital.  I asked for very serious disciplinary action to be taken against the 2 nurses, a formal written apology from the hospital (as if I should have to ask…but whatever) and the hospital stay bills fully covered.  No way I would have been in there for 6 days normally.  Their incompetence led to one thing then another…..I’ll keep you posted as to what happens.
  • My grandmother passed away on Good Friday.  She was 94 years old and the cutest thing you’ve ever seen.  She hadn’t been well for a long time; we knew it was coming, but it’s always hard to lose someone you love….regardless of whether or not you have warning…  I’m glad that she is now out of pain, but sad for my Papa, whom she leaves behind.  He is 93 years old and they were together 69 years this year… amazing is that??  My mom chose to tell me she passed away after the funeral….so I never even had the opportunity to be there.  Yeah, it’s pretty low.  K and I knew, also, that my family would leave Lach’s name out of the obituary….and sure enough, we were right.  It was a rough week….
  • In other bad news, as if I needed more physical crap going on in my life right now, about two weeks ago I started to get pain “down there” again….I knew that my tear was completely healed, so I didn’t really know what was going on.  My peeing has totally gone back to normal, but every time I urinated I would getting burning pain.  I took out a mirror and looked to see if anything looked irregular.  Sigh…..  I had bright red tissue hanging out of me….sorry for the TMI! But, I seriously felt like a freak! I got K to look at it and we booked an OBGYN appt for me.  Apparently when I was bleeding excessively after having Lach, my MW was stitching to stop the hemmorhage, and caught some tissue while stitching.  I was bleeding so much that I’m sure it was SO difficult for her to see, as he nicked an artery interally while coming out.  I felt like it must be a bad joke…when will I get a break!? Last week I went for a gyn appt and they had to put some acid-like liquid on the tissue to burn it off (it was too much to just cut off…would cause too much bleeding).  Sorry for the gross-ness…but such is my life right now.  I go back again tomorrow for them to cut the rest off internally and put one or 2 stitches in.  This isn’t uncommon with giving birth to a large baby, but I had never heard about it and felt rather odd!!  I’m happy that my girl parts will get REALLY back to normal soon and I’ll be pain-free down there.
  • Lachlan’s 4-Month Well-Baby Pedi appointment was today.  Our pediatrician looked at him and said, “Well, looks like he’s eating well!” True dat.  Our big boy is 15lbs 13oz and 26 1/4″ long, putting him in the 90th percentile for both weight and height.  If he continued gaining weight at this rate, he’d be 300lbs by the time he was 6 years old.  It’s amazing how much he’s changing before our eyes.  Our pediatrician said that Lach looked great and is as healthy as ever.  Again, we declined vaccines and we go back in 2 mos.
  • He’s in 6-9 month clothing, or 6-12 month.  Seriously.  The pile of stuff he’s outgrown is drastically increasing!
  • He is grabbing at things now.  Toys on his playmat, our hands, everything really.  You put something in front of him now and he grabs it from you and puts it in his mouth.  This morning he was sitting up (assisted of course) on the crinkly paper at the pedi’s office, and he just reached down, grabbed it, pulled it up from under him and it went right in his mouth.  He was gripping it so tightly, that when we were done laughing and removed it from his hands, he still had wet chunks of it in between his fingers.  He loves to try and eat stuffed animals.  He sort of “cuddles” with them and then it’s into the mouth they go.  He must enjoy it, but he can make some miserable faces while sucking on them.
  • He has officially rolled over! I wanted to post this sooner…but again, life has been a little crazy.  It started about a week ago.  He prefers to roll from his back to his tummy, but can also go from tummy to back.  We squeeled with delight when we saw it the first time, cheering him on like he was running a race.  He struggled with his arm getting “stuck” underneath him at first…but after a few tries, he had it down.  Now he’s doing it repeatedly.  You can’t leave him for a second, as he thinks it’s fun to try to “roll” out of his swing, stroller, car seat, changing table….you get the point.
  • His legs are SO strong now! We got him the F.isher P.rice Rainforest Jumperoo about 2 weeks ago.  When we put him in it, he didn’t really know what to do…..well, now he is jumpin’ up a storm – he loves it! See video below….the first part has more jumping then the rest…..
  • He is sleeping in his bassinet (that he has almost outgrown length-wise) for the first part of the night and then comes into bed with us after the first feeding of the night.  I’d love to report that he is sleeping through the night now, but ’tis not the case my friends! The boy still gets up every 3 hours for the first chunk of the night….and then after that (sigh) it’s every 45mins-2 hours…’s exhausting….I think he may be going through a growth spurt….a few weeks ago he only got up 1-3 times the ENTIRE night.  It was heaven.


14 thoughts on “So Much

  1. Yay! About the hospital bills, I mean.

    That’s shit about Lach not being in the obit. Pardon my French, but it’s just not fair that families can be so ignorant. Your son is so precious and they’re just missing out on it all.

    I’m sorry about your lady bits. Crossed fingers that you’re almost all done with that stuff!

    Good luck with Lach’s sleeping schedule. Hopefully once he’s reached 300lbs he’ll be able to sleep through the night, and maybe even get into his own bed! 😉

  2. Ellie LOVES the rainforest bouncer as well. LOVES it. She really goes to town when bouncing in it!

    I second the sorry about your lady bits and wish them a speedy recovery! 🙂

    I am surprised your mom even told you your grandmother died. Has she asked any questions about her grandson?

  3. I am sorry to hear about the death of your grandmother. .. and the jerkiness from your family. Also bad news about the lady bits. I hope you are headed for just really good health from here on out. That video is so very cute.

  4. ouch, sorry to hear that you’re still going through some pain. I hope that this resolves it permanently!

    Lach is so cute. That’s a beautiful picture of the two of you on your blog.

  5. Quite an update. Sorry to hear about your girl parts and the continued annoyance with the hospital. But, your family…come on. How disrespectful, hateful and just plain mean not to tell you of your grandmother’s passing and to ignore your child. I’m not sure I would ever forgive that. Your boy, as always, is beautiful!

  6. Couple things super quick!
    * Hoping your lady parts get healed QUICK! How horrible!
    * Lach is in the same size clothes as Daniel! (Daniel is closer to 12 months now of course, but still manages those 9 – 12)
    * He is quite the jumper! Daniel always loved his jumperoo just as much – the older they get the harder they jump!

  7. He is adorable. Austin loved the jumparoo as well. We still put him in it every once in awhile, even though he has about outgrown it.

    Oh and about the stuff down there… don’t feel bad… I had the hemrroghing stuff as well and had some problems several months afterwards too. I STILL feel as if I am trying to get back to normal 🙂 And Austin wasn’t even a big baby! So don’t feel alone in this… I witcha!

    Sorry to hear about your gma. So sad to lose a love one like that.

    Keep pictures of the little man coming… he is so adorable.

  8. Good on you for pursuing things with the hospital. Perhaps you can prevent some oother woman having to suffer the way that you did. Sorry about the lady bits drama and your GM and shitty treatment from you family. But, oh your boy is a joy!

  9. LOVED hearing about what happened to the nurse. We wish it had been more, but hooray for something being done in an age of nothing happening. Great update. We’re wondering what kind of dowry you want to marry Lachlan to our daughter someday? Lo (jk)l. He’s adorable, we really love following your blog 🙂

  10. I am so sorry that your grandmother passed away, and sorry about your family forgetting about your son however they are the ones who are missing out……as a grandmother I KNOW the joy grandchildren bring…..and they’re missing it…..

  11. Glad to hear the hospital is taking action and working to make you happy. Sorry you are still having some trouble ‘down there’…hopefully it will be better soon. Lach is such a cute and happy baby. you are doing a great job!

  12. Just wanted to say (better late than never!?) i’m really sorry about your grandmother and how your family dealt with it, or didn’t deal. You have a very beautiful boy there. But you knew that!! xx

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